Valentine’s Day 2022: 59 thoughtful questions to ask when dating on Zoom

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Valentine’s Day 2022: 59 thoughtful questions to ask when dating on Zoom


person zooming date
Get to know your virtual lover with these questions (Image: Getty)

Before the pandemic, you might have thought Zoom dating was just another word for speed dating—but fast forward to 2022, and many people are embracing virtual Valentine’s Day.

Video call dating can be awkward and exhausting, but a Zoom conversation is a great way to avoid catfish and find out if the person you’ve been texting is worth meeting IRL.

Before testing your physical attractiveness later, use the time wisely to get to know the person and see if they are compatible.

To help you do this, UK Underground We’ve compiled a list of questions you can ask your online date and find out about them in the real world.

Just try not to get too “interview-style” when asking questions – use these questions as a starting point to eliminate any blunt moments that may arise.

59 Zoom Date Questions

Women Dating on Zoom
Conference IRL Yes so 2019 (Image: Getty)

  1. What’s the funniest or funniest thing you’ve done during lockdown?
  2. Do you have siblings?
  3. Which childhood memory do you think encapsulates who you are now?
  4. If you could isolate anywhere in the world, where would you be?
  5. Is there anything you feel the lockdown taught you or gave you a point of view?
  6. Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
  7. Once we were allowed to travel freely, what were your first travel plans?
  8. What was the last movie you watched?
  9. What are you reading now?
  10. what pets do you have?
  11. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
  12. If your friends had to describe you, what would they say?
  13. What is your dream career?
  14. What would your “desert island plate” be?
  15. When is your ideal date?
  16. Cat people or dog people?
  17. Do you have any party skills?
  18. What’s the weirdest lock-in impulse buy you’ve ever made?
  19. Who would you say is an inspiration in your life?
  20. If you had a dream dinner party where you could invite anyone, dead or alive, who would you ask?
  21. What do people usually think of you when they meet you for the first time?
  22. Ever been rude to a waiter?
  23. Have you ever had an emo/raver/mosher/etc phase at school?
  24. What’s the best show you’ve been in?
  25. How have you noticed that you haven’t seen family or friends in the past few months?
  26. Did you take any fun virtual quizzes or meetups?
  27. Where would you say your “happy place” is?
  28. How did you meet your best friend?
  29. If you could move anywhere in the world, where would you go?
  30. Is this more of a Joe Weeks blockade or a sourdough and banana bread blockade?
  31. What’s your favorite pizza topping?
  32. What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?
  33. If you could eat anything in the world right now, what would it be?
  34. Who will play you in the movie of your life?
  35. Have you ever been told that you look like a person?
  36. Do you have any “guilty pleasure” music or TV obsessions?
  37. If you were a friend character, who would you be?
  38. If you were to start a business, what would it be?
  39. What would you do if you found money on the street?
  40. What’s the best advice you got?
  41. What’s the worst advice?
  42. If you could have any superpower, which would you choose?
  43. Would you rather be rich or famous?
  44. Do you think “kid you” would be happy to see where you are now?
  45. Are you an outdoor sports person?
  46. What’s a hobby you’ve always wanted to try but never tried?
  47. What’s your biggest fear of being stupid?
  48. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
  49. What are you most looking forward to in the world?
  50. Where did you go on vacation as a child?
  51. If you could study any subject – without looking for a job, just to gain knowledge – what would you choose?
  52. If your friend was a hot girl, what kind of hot girl would you be?
  53. If you won the lottery right now, what would you spend it on?
  54. When you look out the window of your car or bus, what song do you imagine playing in your “movie of life”? (we all do)
  55. What’s your worst date?
  56. If you could turn back time, where would you go?
  57. What would you do if you had enough money not to work?
  58. Would you say you are an introvert or an extrovert?
  59. Do you want to meet IRL?

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